DOM is not a frontend tool -- it's used in the backend to manage your data relationships, so the only difference is that you would have a more robust interface for uploading/managing your file objects in the CMS.
No, totally different code. The big difference between FileDOM and HasManyDOM, from a code standpoint, is that HasManyDOM requires you to decorate your File object for custom fields, while a FileDOM manages DataObjects that contain files, e.g.
7 December 2010 at 11:09pm
Sorry for digging out an old thread. I stumbled across this and thought I might add a link to a solution on how to migrate Has-many File Manager to DOM: http://silverstripe.org/all-other-modules/show/14630