hehehe thanks for ur effort.
Maybe just extend the 5 children pages to add a textfield with the url in it. Would still be hard coded, but at least your template would look cleaner.
You could then use a normal childrenof control and build the link with the variable used as the textfield.
Either way there would have to be some hard coding going on somewhere.
Thats what i ended up doing. every post starts with an <h3> tag with the link to the other page. hardcoded.
it works...well ....hardcoded....
if anyone can think of an automated way , u know, shoot :)